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Reader I'm just checking in to let you know I'm thinking about you. Last week was the one year anniversary of my father's death and funeral. So I am having a little grace for myself. I've taken a few weeks off from writing this weekly blog because I couldn't find the focus in words or even message. Grief is funny that way It shows up and sucks all the air out of the room, while simultaneously honoring life and love. Tomorrow I join a room of over 50 people at the SHRM Tennessee 2025 conference to talk about having courageous conversations. As I prepared to make the case for why every courageous conversation is a gift to be given, I realized that I needed to walk my talk. So here I am admitting that that I'm in a moment of struggle. I have been telling myself that my grief was blocking my creativity. It turns out, that it is actually a source to tap into. With all the chaos of these times, there's much sadness and grief, so perhaps you need to hear that it is okay and you deserve grace too. Acknowledging your feelings isn't wallowing. Stay curious. Ask, "What do I need most right now?" And trust yourself. As soon as I stopped framing this as hard and resisting my feelings, I knew what I needed to do. So cheers to you Reader. And thank you for your patience and acceptance. PS - Welcome Nebraska State Council friends β The BEST Review of Show Up Positive Ever
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My weekly emails are for you if you want a transformational SHOT OF POSITIVITY that makes you think, gets you laughing, and sparks a positive change. Start each week inspired.
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