Reader, I've got three words for you: mindset, meaning, and MacGyver. It turns out that MINDSET + MEANING + MACGYVER is the secret to this week's #ShowUpPositive Spark, RESILIENT Let's start with MINDSET and break it down. The first common trait shared by resilient people and companies is their staunch acceptance of reality. Rather than adopting a baseless optimism and being disappointed repeatedly, resilient people accept the reality of their situation, no matter how brutal, while maintaining unwavering faith that they will prevail. Both POWs and survivors of the Nazi concentration camps reported that those who chose optimism instead of realism lost hope and were among the first to die. Reader, it turns out that the mind is a powerful force for both bad and good, depending on your choice. The second trait of resilient people is they find MEANING despite their adversity. Meaningfulness is intensely personal and often revealed as a reflection of family and societal contribution. Meaning can't be dictated by others, nor is it sustained continuously. It is highly contextual and episodic. The final trait of resilient people is their ability to improvise with what they have and find a way forward, just like MACGYVER . Whether you caught the original MacGyver from my childhood or the reboot last decade, you know that MacGyver's superpower is his ability to improvise and use the most random materials to get himself out of a dangerous situation or gain access to critical information. There you have it, Reader, the secrets to being more resilient:
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Reader, it may be cold outside, but it's cozy in here. Thanks for welcoming me back. The end of last year brought several fabulous new clients. As their thought partner and trusted advisor, I prioritize understanding them and finding the most relatable ways to convey ideas. This frequently occurs as in-the-moment inspiration. Occasionally,, it seeds an idea in my head that has lasting power. This one is taking up a lot of real estate as a transformative frame, and I'd like to test-drive it...
Reader, are you feeling bombarded? I've never been big on New Year's resolutions, but in the past few years, I've found this tradition especially cringe. Part of this response is having enough decades on the earth to know that I have never once followed through on my previous New Year's resolutions in a sustained way. The other part is the proliferation of marketing messages exploiting this tradition to reinforce messages of scarcity and insufficiency. Who needs more of that sh!t in your...
Reader, if you need someone to give your permission to prioritize you, read this This week's #ShowUpPositive Spark is GIVING, starting with you. It's Thanksgiving week in the US, so I've seen many articles about giving. However, I noticed that they are all focused externally. But you and I know, Reader, that in order to give to others, your own cup can't be empty. That is why you need to prioritize yourself this week. I have a few ideas to encourage and inspire you. Get outside and clear your...